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今天有同事说要过绿色通道英语口语考试，向我要当年通过考试的文章，我找了好久才找到这篇自己写的关于儿子的文章，当我看一遍的时候，忽然发现4年过去了，我遗忘的不仅仅是英语，还有对儿子的那份深深的喜爱和欣赏。或许在他渐渐长大的过程中有很多的东西是让我不满意的，我渐渐用唠叨，批评代替了表扬和欣赏，前两天我和儿子聊天，谈到怎么样沟通和教育才能让他比较听话，他说：“带着感情的表扬对我是最有效的。”或许我真的要好好反思了。 My son
I have a three- year- old son. He is very clever and cute. I love him very much and I think we’re good friends.
At first I think I can understand him. Once my son hit the toilet bowl with a fish jar.. My husband was very angry and scolded him at once. I stopped my husband and bent down to ask my son why he did it. My son answered he just wanted to be Simaguang. I remembered I had told him a story of Simaguang who smashed a big water jar to save his little fellow. I laughed and told him it was very right to want to be a hero, but it was dangerous to do it.
Secondly we often talk with each other. He often tells me something that happened in the kindergarten. Sometimes I exchang my idea with him. Once I told him: “ I love you deeply. When I play with you, I feel very happy. But I have been very busy recently; I do not have enough time to spend with you. I’m very sorry.” My son answered: “I want you to become a kid, then you can go to the kindergarten together with me everyday.” I said: “ That’s a good idea. But if I don’t go to work, we will not have money to buy the food and drinks. What will you eat? What will you drink?” My son said: “If you were a kid, I will eat nothing and drink nothing.” I was very moved and decided to try my best to improve my work efficiency, so I could spend more time with him.
Thirdly I always respect his choice. When I buy something for him such as books, toys, hats, shoes.I always ask which one he likes. Last year I wanted to buy him a hat. I chose one and asked if he liked it or not. He said: “No”. Then I asked him to choose one for himself. Finally we bought a hat with a lot of flowers on it. I thought it was just for girls, but he liked it very much. He thought it was very beautiful and comfortable.
I think good parents should be their children’s friends. I love my son. I think I’ll be his friend forever.
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